The need for relationships with other people.

The need for touching and holding.

The need to belong and feel "one" with others.

The need to be different and separate from others.

The need to nurture (to care for and help oneself and other people).

The need to feel worthwhile, valued, and admired.

The need for power in our relationships and our lives.


Our coaching together may explore the level of satisfaction of each of these needs and discover/uncover ways in which to get these needs met safely and vibrantly.


"Love After Love"  by Derek Walcott
     
The time will come
when, with elation
you will greet yourself arriving
at your own door, in your own mirror
and each will smile at the other's welcome,

and say, sit here. Eat.
You will love again the stranger who was your self.
Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart
to itself, to the stranger who has loved you

all your life, whom you ignored
for another, who knows you by heart.
Take down the love letters from the bookshelf,

the photographs, the desperate notes,
peel your own image from the mirror.
Sit. Feast on your life.