"How you do sex is more important than what sex you do." 
                                             -- Barbara Carrellas, Urban Tantra

Have you fallen into an erotic, sensual, sexual rut in your relationship with each other?  Or, have simply found yourselves no longer erotically attracted to each other even though you are fully committed to each other?  What are your options?

Training couples in erotic, sensual bodywork to enliven and embody your relationship more fully.  This is a 2 to 6 hour experiential training in giving and receiving pleasures on many levels, asking and receiving, explicit verbal communication skills, accessing, complementing and integrating your emotional and physical lives together. It is with your own conscious touch that you can invite your partner to their most conscious self. It's about experiencing the present moment of giving or receiving with each other.

Sexual, sensual, erotic pleasures may become routine for a couple due to lack of open, explicit communication regularly.  By asking and talking openly about what is sexually pleasing, shame and guilt are dissolved and intimacy deepened. Learning to be able to say "yes" and "no" enhances the integrity and intimacy of the relationship. Learn role enactment, partner engagement, trance with each other and the dynamics of interest-excitement and enjoyment-joy.

You are responsible for your own pleasure.  How you ask for it, what you receive, how much you allow, and what you do with it are up to you.  Your partner(s) are similarly responsible for their own pleasure. 

What keeps us from opening to one another?  Fear of being 'seen' and known, lack of self-acceptance, and fear of loss of control.  Each of these dynamics can be resolved and your erotic life together blossom over and over.

Sessions are two hours in length.  $175 per session for the couple.



"When you accept responsibility for your own erotic power and pleasure,  here's what happens:
    * You stop expecting your partner(s) to be the source of your orgasms.
    * You stop pressuring them to give you things you haven't yet learned to                 accept.
    * You stop blaming them for not knowing what you want.
    * You learn to articulate to your partner(s) what it is you really want."
                            - Barbara Carrellas, "Urban Tantra"



       "Sexuality is a celebration of life!  And surely we all deserve to experience life as a celebration.  Our sexuality is with us all our life, and it is the wellspring of our sensuality -- our potential to enjoy living.  It is our capacity to experience pleasure, and even joy, ecstasy, and bliss.  Whatever our age, whatever our physical condition, we all have the potential for erotic pleasure.  After all, sexuality is the flow of the lifeforce within us, through us, and all around us."   
                          - Barnaby Barratt, "Sexual Health & Erotic Freedom"

This group experience focuses upon the embodiment of your erotic energy.  You will learn particular breathwork techniques, explore the continuum of interest-excitement and enjoyment-bliss in your sexual styles, discover what specific scripts you are most comfortable embodying (partner engagement, role enactment, trance), and embrace the seductive you for manifesting in your life what you so desire, creating sex magick.

We are meeting from 9:00 am to 4:00 pm. This group will be limited to three couples.  Nudity is part of the process.  This workshop is without sexual activity. 

For information and to register contact me at redhawk1947@gmail.com or 510-409-3318.